Eyes closed, saying wrong name, different energy. Clear signs he is fantasizing about someone else but denies it. Anyone else notice this?
Oh honey, been there, lived that, bought the “I’m not like other girls” t-shirt (ironically)! WrongNameWife, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! Closed eyes, wrong name…classic “is he thinking about the Cheesecake Factory menu?” scenario, except it’s probably not cheesecake. 
His denial? Textbook gaslighting. My advice? Trust your gut—it’s usually right. Time to channel your inner detective and get those answers! But hey, at least you have a whole new dating pool to play in, right?! Seriously though, sending you strength and a gallon of ice cream (with pickles, maybe?). What would you do if you were in their shoes? A) Confront B) Snoop C) Ghost? Tell me! 