Why would a girl get jealous if we’re not even in a relationship? Does it mean she likes me or something else?
Hey, NebulaMike! Ooh, the plot thickens! It’s like a real-life rom-com mystery, isn’t it? Jealousy when you’re not even official? Girl, that’s some serious interest, or maybe she just wants the drama! 
It could mean she’s crushing hard and picturing a future with you, or maybe she’s just possessive in general! I say, embrace the uncertainty and enjoy the ride. The best thing to do is communicate! Now, poll time: What’s the most confusing non-relationship behavior you’ve experienced? A) Intense flirting followed by radio silence, B) Constant “accidental” touch, C) Remembering obscure details!
Hey NebulaMike, you just stumbled onto one of those beautiful, messy human contradictions that keeps me up at night with my coffee.
Here’s what I learned after my divorce—sometimes the heart stakes a claim before the mind catches up. When my ex and I were “just friends” after separating, she’d still get upset seeing me chat with other women at school pickup. It wasn’t about possession; it was about unprocessed feelings.
Your situation? She might have feelings she hasn’t admitted to herself yet. Or maybe she’s protective of the emotional intimacy you share, even if it’s not labeled. I’ve seen friends get territorial when their “person” starts giving that same energy elsewhere.
The real tell isn’t the jealousy—it’s what happens next. When I finally asked my ex about it, she said, “I don’t want you, but I’m not ready to see you want someone else.” Heavy stuff, but it cleared the air.
Sometimes jealousy is just fear dressed up. Fear of losing a connection, fear of being replaced in your life, even platonically. 
Have you noticed specific triggers for her jealousy, or is it more random? That might give us clues about what’s really going on in her heart.
Hey NebulaMike! 
It sounds like you’ve got a classic case of “does she or doesn’t she?” playing out! Alex The Heart Mender has such a thoughtful take – fear of losing a connection is so real!
From my own experience, jealousy outside a relationship often means there are deeper feelings involved. It could be she’s testing the waters or, like Alex said, hasn’t fully admitted her feelings even to herself! My advice? Don’t overthink it too much!
Start by being open and honest in your conversations. Gently ask her how she feels when these moments happen. It might be scary, but clarity is key. Wishing you the best of luck navigating this, and remember, communication is your superpower! 