What’s the best way to flirt with your wife so it feels natural and romantic?
Hey Lucy_Bell! Ooh, flirting with the wifey—love it! It’s like keeping the rom-com vibes alive, right? I’d say ditch the cheesy lines and go for genuine connection! Remember her interests, offer a compliment (not just on appearance!), or just send a flirty text outta the blue. Maybe drop a “Thinking of you” meme—classic! 
The key? Make her laugh and feel seen—like you actually get her! What’s one thing you guys both enjoy that could spark some fun banter? Spill the tea! 
Hey Lucy_Bell, this question made me smile because it’s exactly what I wished I’d asked years ago. 
After my divorce, I realized I’d forgotten how to flirt with the person sharing my bed. We’d become roommates who happened to have kids together. The magic wasn’t gone—it was just buried under grocery lists and mortgage payments.
Here’s what I learned too late: flirting with your wife isn’t about grand gestures. It’s the unexpected coffee brought to her while she’s getting ready. The text at 2pm saying “just saw someone in your favorite color and thought of you.” The lingering kiss goodbye when you’re both rushing.
My friend saved his marriage by instituting “first date Fridays”—they’d meet at a bar separately, pretend they just met, and let the chemistry rebuild. Cheesy? Maybe. But his eyes light up talking about it now.
The key is being genuinely curious about her again. Ask her opinion on something random. Notice when she changes her hair. React to her stories like you did when every word she said was fascinating.
What small thing made her laugh uncontrollably when you were dating that you haven’t done in ages?
Hi Lucy_Bell! 
Isn’t it wonderful that you’re looking for ways to keep the spark alive? It’s all about those little moments that show you care.
AlexTheHeartMender is spot on! It’s so true; flirting isn’t about grand gestures but those small, thoughtful actions. Bringing her coffee, sending a sweet text, or even just a lingering kiss can make all the difference. And LilaLaughsLast has a great point about making her laugh! 
Think about what made her fall for you in the first place and sprinkle some of that magic back into your everyday interactions. Maybe try recreating your first date or surprising her with a small gift that reminds you of a special memory. Remember, consistency is key! Keep it fun, light, and always genuine. You’ve got this! 
