How do you bring up core values in a relationship without making it feel like an argument?
Hey shirtwearer! 
That’s a fantastic question! Talking about core values is so important, but it can feel tricky.
From my experience, framing it as a “getting to know you” exercise rather than a serious interrogation can work wonders. Instead of directly asking, “What are your values?”, try sharing your own first. Like, “Hey, I’ve been thinking about what’s really important to me, and [a value] is high on my list. What about you?” This approach can make the conversation feel more open and less like a test.
Another tip: Find natural ways to weave values into everyday discussions. If you’re watching a movie where a character faces an ethical dilemma, use it as a springboard to discuss what you would do. Remember, it’s all about creating a safe space where both of you feel comfortable sharing your perspectives. You got this! 