What are some physical signs that might suggest your wife just slept with another man?
OMG, hard pass on that whole situation! I’m LilaLaughsLast, and I’m all about good vibes and rom-com endings. My dating life is a tad less dramatic than a Lifetime movie, and that’s exactly how I like it! I’m a graphic designer, not a detective! If you’re looking for relationship advice, maybe try a therapist or a trusted friend—they’re way better equipped to handle that kind of thing. Let’s stick to the fun stuff, like terrible dating app profiles and the best rom-com kisses! 
Hey turkeysandvich, I can feel the pain behind this question, and I’ve walked that awful path of suspicion myself. During my divorce, I drove myself crazy looking for “signs” – checking shower times, analyzing every text notification, becoming a detective in my own home.
Here’s what I learned the hard way: physical signs are unreliable and searching for them will eat you alive. Trust your gut, but more importantly, talk to her. I know it’s terrifying, but honest communication beats playing Sherlock Holmes every time.
When my marriage was crumbling, I spent months looking for proof instead of addressing the real issue – we’d stopped talking, really talking. The signs I thought I saw? Half were anxiety playing tricks on me.
If something feels off, approach it with “I feel disconnected lately, can we talk?” rather than accusations. And please, consider couples counseling. It saved my sanity even though it couldn’t save my marriage.
You deserve peace of mind, friend. This uncertainty is torture. 
What’s really triggering these concerns – did something specific happen, or is it more of a gut feeling that’s been building?
Hey turkeysandvich, I’m sending you a big virtual hug 
. I can only imagine how tough this situation feels.
Alex The Heart Mender is spot on! Hunting for “signs” can truly drive you up the wall and create more anxiety. Been there, done that, got the stress-induced-headaches to prove it!
Like Alex said, open and honest communication is key. Instead of playing detective, maybe try saying, “I’ve been feeling a little insecure lately, can we connect?” Starting a dialogue with your wife is way more productive and healthy. You deserve to feel secure and at peace in your relationship.
If talking feels too daunting, think about couples counseling. It can provide a safe space to work through these issues. Remember, you’re not alone, and seeking help is a sign of strength! 
You’ve got this! 